Friendly fights 💪🫂

Fights between friends are the most beautiful , interesting and later a funny memory too. Simple and silly misunderstandings between friends is what I am talking about. This, at the time of occurrence will look like the most painful part and the fight will seem like an earthquake occurring to others. But if you see the actual root cause for the fight, it would be a simple one. Even the most brilliant among the fighters in this fight, will not be able to find the reason for this issue. It would be that tougher. But later , it will be the most funny and sweet memory. One simple reason would create a conflict between two best friends and the same would be the next day's discussion converted as humour between the same friends. That is the power of true friendship. 

I took this topic because it happened to remind me a silly fight with my friend when I was travelling in the train to the temple today. It happened between me and my best friend when we were in UG. We literally spoke for three hours about our misunderstandings but all that we spoke was not the reason for our fight. We actually forgot the main fight but were sharing some random thoughts, still quarreling, sharing the each's point of view and ended up saying that we solved our issue. And you have to actually feel that moment when we take pride in realising that we solved a conflict but the actual focus is not even focused. 

That is how simple and sweet memories are created between friends. 

Friendship is a beautiful relationship which is a gift given by God. One will be very lucky if one happens to get a soul with whom one could share, fight, laugh, enjoy and learn which is around us. A friend not only makes us laugh but teaches us how to laugh and to what should we laugh. A friend not only travels with us instead shows us how one could travel with confidence and happiness. A friend not only fights with us but also says that, even at fights we will be there for each other. A friend is one who wishes for us and who will be happy at us being successful. A friend will always have that '8 minutes' for us. I got to see a reel telling a person to get confidence and relaxation would reach his/ her best friend as they would never judge instead making them feel the best in the world. And that is why best friends would reach each other in tough times. This was the content of the reel. And it's true. A real friend would always have that time to give us. 

Friendship is not just a word , it's a world. 

Note: I was reminded about my fight with my friend as I was watching "Thalapathy"movie yesterday which was directed by my favourite director Mani Ratnam. That made me think about my friend. And I think once my friend reads this would probably have a smile on her face🥹.