Friend 😁

 Talking with a friend will always make us feel relaxed and happy. Whatever the content may be and in any medium, either through phone or a live conversation, anything, it brings us happiness and pleasant feelings. A friend whom we could trust and who really cares for us. A friend who never make us feel lonely and always stay as our inspiration. They will actually not do anything but only give the proper required space for us to realise who they are and who we are. That's all we would require too. 

"செயற்கரிய யாவுள நட்பின் அதுபோல்

வினைக்கரிய யாவுள காப்பு." ( Seyarkariya yavula natpin athupol vinaikariya yavula kappu) 

A verse from Tirukkural written by Thiruvalluvar, one of the ancient and most valuable text of verses in Tamil literature. 

This particular verse is from the verses written on friendship. Thiruvalluvar has dedicated each chapters to each important aspects that a man encounters in the life cycle. This particular verse means that what else is a more secured place than a friend giving one. This verse I searched for showed me the above meaning and which is actually very true. To earn a good friend is at the most difficult task and equally important one as to our life goals. A true friend would inbuilt a confidence in ourself and they wish to stand beside us in our victories and weep along with us when we are sad and cheer us up when we are tired and teaches us to fight back no matter what comes. Maybe they don't give us the strategies but would give that friendship which makes us feel confident. This I feel something like the 'Nanban' movie, a Tamil movie directed by Shankar which was actually a remake of 3 idiots by Aamir Khan in Hindi. 

A phone from my friend made me think about this content, search on what valluvar has said about it and put it as words here. Wow ! She through one phone call made me laugh, search for a verse as well as learn the kural (verse) which she always does actually. In that way even we be a friend to our friend and they may take us too in this way which means even we are a source of motivation.