Dare to differ

Taking a different path from others is not a fault. Being different from others is quite a challenging move. Because first we have to convince ourselves for what we are differing and then challenge others. It's not necessary to follow the same path like others. It should be our conscious choice to take a path which is suitable to us and which we think can work for us. It is actually a nice thing to think about a concept in various perspectives because there is no such thing called the right answer in abstract ideas. 

Deciding to differ from others itself is a daring decision. We are welcoming a new idea, new thought process and also challenges in life. Challenges in life shapes us right. Anyway we are not going to decide blindly in order to be unique. We think, we research then decide at last and some decisions may also not emerge as victorious. But our step to think in various perspectives will help us to show the varieties, and among that deciding a conclusion will be even more powerful . 

My idea is taking a step to think differently makes us unique. And when we take that step we work in double mode in order to basically defend ourselves and win the argument. But at the end of that we will see how hard we worked to find a different way and will also have a clear understanding whether our argument make valid stand. We learn from our arguments. Arguing over a thing doesn't mean that we are stubborn instead we are trying to look into a different perspective. Of course our ideas will have personal influences but that's where we learn how to make a difference between what should be anecdotal and what should have a general perspective. Learning has different methods. In anyway we can learn which includes being argumentative. 

So being different and debating is not wrong, to be different you need confidence that's all which automatically brings in our learning mindset. 

The only thing we need to decide is what to dare, how are we going to differ, how are we going to carry that difference throughout and is our difference valid and valuable. The climax of the difference may be to get back to the general opinion or other's point and we may lose the argument but that doesn't mean what ever we thought so far is wrong. We would just have opened an opportunity for different thought on which there maybe validation later. So we should not fear to bring out our thoughts. It is fine to differ and to lose but the only thing we need to follow when we dare to differ, is to be active, conscious and listen to things around us which will help us ultimately. Choosing art over science and science over art is fine but at end of the day are we doing justice and explore deep into it matters. 

Do you agree with me?