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Watching a match after a long time 🏏🏏

I like watching cricket. A team game with lots of twists and turns. I am not a very big fan of world cup matches. I remember watching this Sri Lanka vs India match and I was young at that time. I like watching IPL matches. They are short, played for twenty overs and quite interesting too. I don't know all the information on cricket but yes quite a few things I can understand in the game. I myself am a street cricketer 😁. I used to play when I was young. I had a group of friends who were my neighbours. We formed a team, waited for our summer vacation and once that started our match started. From 4 to 6pm it was our match timing. It's not too hot at that time and still the sun stays in the sky so it's not dark either. We divided ourselves into teams with the help of "Sha boo three" ( an auctioning strategy that we had and sometimes stay as a tool to find the outer in hide and seek game) and we didn't have coin for toss so we used "odd or even" game to...

The Art of beginning again.

Have you seen this movie "Lucky Bhaskar" played by Dulquer salman. Actually a very brilliant scripted and entertaining movie. The movie is about a middle class man who is humiliated because of his earnings, who later decides to use his tactics to earn showing that money is a weapon to sustain your respect in front of the people who don't value the emotion of humans. I personally like the film very much for it's script, screenplay, characters, actors as well as the content. In that movie there is one dialogue where the protagonist says " history only remembers how you finished it". It's in one way very true right. Our result will actually determine us. Though we may say outcome doesn't matter but ultimately for that goal is for what we are working hard. And our result will make us confident and that's when we will decide on how much we worked hard and was it successful. Therefore, results matters a lot. But it's in our hands on what will be ...

Your perspective changes in the way you look.

 Perspective changes in the way we look at things. That is what we call it an optimistic and pessimistic perspective. When we look at things in a negative way our energy to work towards the goal may not seem to be a desired one. We may somehow bring the result of the work in a positive way but our efforts, our mind and satisfaction level on the work may not be very powerful. Our perspective in how we look is the first step of success for the work. In simple terms, if we think that drinking water daily is a work we may feel bored, that we pressure ourselves to do something, but when we think that this is a challenging and enthusiastic task that I give it to myself we may feel boosted and motivated to complete the challenge. That will benefit us in a healthy lifestyle as well as a confidence would be built in ourself telling that we will be able to achieve. Impossible would become a word that we wish to challenge. This example may seem very simple one but starting from smaller things...

Loyalty

Today I got to see a post on LinkedIn. The post was about a dog which saved a shopkeeper, who used to feed the dog with food daily, from a thieves group who were trying to attack the shopkeeper that night and the dog lost its eyesight in the fight with the thieves. I was not able to get the post later again. The dog was not actually owned by the shopkeeper. It was only given food daily by the shopkeeper. That loyalty we can learn from dogs actually. Even animals can sense the true emotions. This reminded me of the story ' the Elephant and the Tailor' where this tailor who daily gives banana to an elephant that belongs to the royal when it's on the way to take bath. But one day the tailor didn't have a banana so in order to move the elephant away, he pokes its trunk with a needle. This elephant doesn't do anything instead simply walks away. And on the way back it absorbs some mud that was in the puddle and splashes it on the tailor and his shop making the entire shop...

Best lessons life gives us

We read a lot, practice a lot and try to apply it wherever possible for the intended solution or results. But there are certain important lessons which only our experience would give us. Our life will always teach us valuable and important lessons. Though we take it or not its teaching will always be present. It not only teaches us but also highlights our work, whether it be good or any mistake in our work. Lessons like procrastination, importance of words and patience, all are vital for us to cross pathways. Procrastination is one big mistake that I personally occur often and my experience will keep teaching me often. We actually should not postpone things which later will have greater impact. Be it crucial or small work it should be done on time. Doing it priorly is also fine but late will always make us hectic. I keep understanding the importance of this but still trying to figure out how to solve this problem.  The importance of words is something which is another one in the r...

Believe in yourself

It's the hope and self confidence that we have within ourselves makes us reach our success. There may be doubts of whether we will be able to do this or that. Let there be doubts within others. It's not necessary for us to answer our capabilities to others. Instead we can show them through our actions. We are liable to answer only to the questions that are asked within us. We are the ones who have the right to question ourselves and only we can answer those. No one can better motivate us than us. Of course, there may be times where we may have doubts about our talents and potentials. We may not find an exact answer for that too but in that situation it's the confidence in us that will make us succeed. We primarily should have hope that would automatically build confidence. Self confidence is basically building a trust within ourselves. That trust is already within us when we are into this world. It's about how we enhance it and keep it strong. Our trust for ourselves is...

A movie with friends

Watching a nice comedy film is a great experience. When you watch a comedy movie in a theatre filled with the audience, responding to the comedy will automatically enhance the laughter and elevate the comedy. The movie I watched today is 'Thai kizhavi' a Tamil movie starring Radhika Sarathkumar and many others. An interesting movie, that brings the concept of independence, freedom and emotions dominated by greed. To explain the movie as a summary , it's about a very stubborn old woman who prefers being independent, falls sick, and her sons fight over her unknown properties and whether she recovers and does her sons understand her value and attain the property and what happens to her daughter is the end of the story.  A family entertainment movie which completely sets in a village and the screenplay, songs, setting and the costumes did not fail to achieve its goals. The actors played well on their part. The dialogues were made sure that they reflected the setup. Overall, it...

Small habits help at greater level.

Very small habits that we follow will have greater influences on our character and practices. When we wake up early in the morning we can find ourselves being fresh and active throughout the day. When we walk daily for certain kilometres we sweat a lot which helps to control our sugar and burn more calories which keeps us fit and healthy. Daily meditation for 10 minutes will calm our mind and feel a stress free lifestyle. Small habits like these will help us in the long run. We tend to focus on the long run while failing to cherish these small necessary habits which basically helps for the longer one. In simple terms, we forget to spend a few minutes for ourselves which later makes us forget ourselves and our priorities.  Concentrating on small habits is actually a better way to develop and succeed in our life. When we plan a thing we automatically have a clear and larger idea on the thing similarly when we plan our daily life we basically plan for our future goals and know which t...